Nobody
needs to be told how skewed the Indian society is. Amid tall claims of
modernization and criminal charges of westernization, it is clear to any person
how perversely orthodox and unbending this civilization is.
There are a
number of examples wherein this backward mindset can be seen, heard and
experienced in everyday life. It might not always become glaringly obvious, but
that is only because we have accepted these things and taken them in our stride
as things that ‘just happen’ in India. Is it such a surprise then that we have
songs that go like, “It happens only in India…?”
One such
problem of the Indian people is their indefinite problem with the youth of the
country. They believe that today’s youth is irresponsible, useless, unemployed
and indecent. What they apparently do not realize is that if they make such
allegations, they malign themselves and not the youth, since their accusations
revert upon themselves as to what morals they've passed down to this generation.
This
however, does not mean that I’m pleading guilty to those charges. In fact, I
believe that the Indian society’s problem is their fear of accepting change.
They are scared of losing what they have been brought up to believe is true.
What they do not understand is that their society will ultimately stagnate like
the Sanskrit language, without the change that the next generation stands for.
The
incident that has driven me to write this post is a classic example of the
skewed morality that Indians posses and are incredibly proud of.
My
colleague and friend, a woman, offered to drop me home after a very long day of
film shooting and we were both half dead. The area in which I stay is pretty
well developed and is near to some very reputed institutes of the city, there’s
a lot of traffic and so she dropped me right into my lane. I had a couple
packets of chips and so we decided to sooth our ravenous bellies before leaving
for home. Now as we were eating and discussing the next day’s schedule, this woman
in a night dress comes to the gate of one of the houses and asks us our
business in sitting “near” her house in the night. We explain ourselves, albeit
grudgingly but she still pushes on, mentioning that times are bad and the
“things” that happen to woman nowadays. Ultimately, we had to leave before she
woke up half the lane.
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